Page 1 Page 2 Page 3 Page 4 Page 5 Page 6 Page 7 Page 8 Page 9 Page 10 Page 11 Page 12 Page 13 Page 14 Page 15 Page 16 Page 17 Page 18 Page 19 Page 20 Page 21 Page 22 Page 23 Page 24 Page 25 Page 26 Page 27 Page 28 Page 29 Page 30 Page 31 Page 32 Page 33 Page 34 Page 35 Page 36 Page 37 Page 38 Page 39 Page 40 Page 41 Page 42 Page 43 Page 44 Page 45 Page 46 Page 47 Page 48 Page 49 Page 50 Page 51 Page 52 Page 53 Page 54 Page 55 Page 56 Page 57 Page 58 Page 59 Page 60 Page 61 Page 62 Page 63 Page 64 Page 65 Page 66 Page 67 Page 68 Page 69 Page 70 Page 71 Page 72 Page 73 Page 74 Page 75 Page 76 Page 77 Page 78 Page 79 Page 80 Page 81 Page 82 Page 83 Page 84 Page 85 Page 86 Page 87 Page 88 Page 89 Page 90 Page 91 Page 92 Page 93 Page 94 Page 95 Page 96 Page 97 Page 98 Page 99 Page 100 Page 101 Page 102 Page 103 Page 104 Page 105 Page 106 Page 107 Page 108 Page 109 Page 110 Page 111 Page 112 Page 113 Page 114 Page 115 Page 116 Page 117 Page 118 Page 119 Page 120 Page 121 Page 122 Page 123 Page 124 Page 125 Page 126 Page 127 Page 128 Page 129 Page 130 Page 131 Page 132 Page 133 Page 134 Page 135 Page 136 Page 137 Page 138 Page 139 Page 140 Page 141 Page 142 Page 143 Page 144 Page 145 Page 146 Page 147 Page 148118 / SEEDWORLD.COM DECEMBER 2016 I FELT I HAD to create a title that would not freak everyone out, but I can tell you that this column has nothing to do with seed … if you want to pass it by, I’ll understand. Everyone has endured a difficult period in his or her life. Difficulty is not discriminatory. It takes hold of the wealthy just as it does the poor, the educated and the uneducated, the city dweller and the ruralist. I believe that if we knew just how hard it is for the person standing right beside us, we would be expo- nentially more kind and generous. My wife of 22 years, the mother of my children and the love of my life passed away one year ago — she had been battling bipolar and could endure no more. This is a disease that most of us, myself included, will never fully understand or comprehend. For my family and for all those out there who also struggle with it, I wish I could make it just go away. But the hard reality is I can’t, and it’s not going away. This means that we must learn to talk about mental health, and we must get a better grasp of what it is and what it means. During the past year, I’ve had hundreds of conver- sations and heard about the fight that so many families are going through as a loved one battles mental illness. It seems we must continue to have these conversa- tions, even though they make us feel awkward and exposed, so that we can truly be there for our loved ones and make a stand for their mental health. Take a Stand I’ve found that it’s impossible to take a stand without some solid understanding of what it is we are battling. I do not profess to be a mental health expert, so I ask that each and every one of you take one hour to learn, to ask questions, to check in with someone you know who is suffering and expand your understanding of mental health. Most importantly, if you are suffering, please don’t do it in silence; there are people around you who would move heaven and earth for you and will be there to help. Whether you’re more comfortable talking with a professional health care provider or someone in your family, you cannot expect to walk this path on your own. And don’t stop asking for help until you get it. I wish I could guarantee that the first place you contact or the first person you connect with will be the right option, but I can’t. There’s a great deal of confu- sion about mental health, and not everyone has all the information they need. So it’s up to you to remain steadfast and diligent in seeking answers, care and help. And remember, you are not alone — that I can promise you. Through this tragedy, I’ve been blessed with the embrace of a number of strong “communities” including my family, friends, town and industry friends. It’s an embrace that I will never forget. The hurt is still very powerful, and quite frankly it knocks me off my feet … some days completely. Knowing that I am a part of these many and varied groups keeps me thriving, and for that, I am eternally grateful. In closing, I offer a challenge to each of you that is two-fold: 1)  Tell someone what you love about them — today! 2)  Determine what it is that you love most about yourself and share it with someone — today! I would love to hear how your challenge goes, sbrook@issuesink.com. SW SHAWN BROOK Issues Ink President Does Hardship Really Generate Stronger People? “Difficulty is not discriminatory. It takes hold of the wealthy just as it does the poor, the educated and the uneducated ...” — Shawn Brook